Nancy Duggin
“Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.” Mark 1:35 (NIV)
Although we may not get up very early in the morning and leave our home to find a solitary place to pray, we definitely need to make time with Jesus a priority. Let us consider a few steps toward setting aside time to spend in solitude with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.
Begin by praying, seeking the guidance of the Holy Spirit concerning every step of your new adventure at Jesus’ feet.
- Decide on a time — Choose a time during your day when you can give your full attention. Creating a distraction-free environment is crucial to your ability to experience deep reflection, seeking the Father with all your heart, mind, and soul. Seeking God’s face is significant because it leads to an intimate and personal encounter with Him.
- Choose a location — This can be as simple as a favorite chair in the corner of your bedroom. You’ll want a permanent place designated as your place to meet with the Lord.
- Gather materials — Consider your space. Do you have a small bookcase or table available in your chosen space? A box or basket that can slide under or next to your chair will work. Make a list of the materials you want and will need at your fingertips:
> Readers/glasses;
> Pens/pencils/highlighters;
> Journal;
> Bible; commentary/Bible dictionary;
> Coffee warmer (a must for me, so I’m not having to get up to reheat my coffee);
> Kleenex
- Plan — Pray for guidance concerning whether you will use a study in addition to your Bible or read Scripture alone, reflecting on what it reveals to you about God, what God is saying to you, and what you can and should apply to your life.
- Pray — In faith, believing that the Father will remember His many promises. When praying with others, remember the importance of praying in agreement.
> Learn to seek God’s face before you seek His hand as you sit at His feet. Practice praying Scripture as you spend time worshiping the Father, acknowledging His attributes and character — that He alone is worthy of our worship and praise.
> Build in time to listen to what the Father has to impress upon your heart and mind. Prayer is to be a conversation, not a monologue.
> Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal any unconfessed sin in your life, agree with Him, and immediately confess and repent.
> Offer words of thanksgiving for the many blessings you experience day to day from the Father.
> Present your petitions (prayers for yourself) and intercessions (prayers for
others).
> Close your prayers by praying in Jesus’ name — and for His glory.
If you are new to having a regular prayer time, set goals for yourself. Start small, establishing a routine and being intentional about protecting your time to sit at Jesus’ feet. Keep a journal handy so you can record what the Holy Spirit reveals to you as you read Scripture, pray, and sit quietly in His presence.
As important as it is to pray throughout the day — while driving or walking, doing housework, or over lunch — nothing can take the place of uninterrupted time of solitude with your Lord.
As you continue to pursue time with the Lord, you fall deeply in love with the One who first loved you. Your desire to sit at His feet leads to a transformed heart accompanied by your ability to hear His voice.
Let this commitment be an anchor for your soul, leading you to the greatest love relationship in your life. May your greatest joy always be found sitting at your Savior’s feet! B&R
